So my 28 year old bf of 4 years has this old female friend that he was friends with for 6 years before he dated me. Well she insisted that they hangout alone even after we started to get serious. She always asked him to take her places since she has no license and doesn't work and would always make him pay for things at restaurants and wawa. At first I tried to be understanding of their friendship but after she continued doing a bunch of things I listed I asked him to tone it down with her because she was acting like a gf and not respecting our relationship. He agreed that as his gf my feelings should come before another women's. But she would continue blowing up his phone. Well fast forward a little over 3 years she continues to bug him. She recently posted this meme on fb and it said post your favorite memory of me and he responded by saying listening to Taylor swift together with a pic of Taylor swift. They have recently started texting again here and there. I think it is disrespectful to me that he continues to talk to this girl against my wishes when she has disrespected me and its been 3 years dude get over it. He responded with a flirt message on FB. Why does he continue to talk to this other women when she has crossed many boundaries shouldn't his gf of 4 years come first before another women that isn't even a big deal. If he really cared about me it wouldn't be a question. Should I tell him I'm going to break up with him if he continues to disrespect me by talking to this other girl or what?
I find this very disrespectful?
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I think you're entirely in your right to feel the way you do. That's a ridiculous situation.0
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