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A guy only becomes attractive to me when I want to be with him, and that has only happened with my current boyfriend 4 months ago. It was his personality that got it started, his witty comments, the attention he gave to me, great memory to of the things i said and other things, funny as well, animal lover etc... I only had a dark profile pic of him which didn't show much. But I fell in love with who he was.
Then later on I started to get more pics and found him really attractive, in a way that i never found anyone attractive before. I mean I can find peole beautiful, but thats different. Maybe it is because I loved him already before I saw him. He is not popular with the girls or anything, he is quite shy on that area also (except online with me he wasnt), and I've been living with him for 2 months now and everything is perfect. We just match really well with our personalities, so I guess that is very attractive to me. He also cares a lot about me and is worried when im gone and stuff.