what should i do?
Most Helpful Guy
You should break up... LDR is not for everyone... It takes a lot of work from both sides
Most Helpful Girl
If you're in LDR you have to be committed to it and in 100%. If you're considering breaking things off because he is in a neighbouring country and is too busy to see you then maybe you should, since it sounds like you're looking for an excuse to call it off. That's not necessarily a bad thing but if you're questioning things too easily then maybe your heart isn't in it enough, especially since it's only 4 months in. I think it's perfectly reasonable that he is too busy to visit and that's a scenario that may occur a lot in the relationship, you have to accept it if you want to hold on!