I look after my self by dressing smart, styling my hair, work out and have general confidence around them and most women like my sense of humour to make them laugh and enjoy my company but they just dont find me sexually attractive or appealing because i dont look like what a ideal man should look like in a womens eyes and I know this because of all the nice looking lads that are bigger than me just have to say hi or make eye contact to get their attention and their the lads that get approached. I have never been in a relationship before just only one night stands and at 22 have just learned to enjoy my own company to be fair. So deep down am not alone or anything... its just the people that make you feel alone which am seeing quite clearley right now.
All am saying is there's only so much I can do to make my self look better like how I dress, workout whatever and none of them seem to work the only solution I have is to focus on making more money to attract and yeah i know its horrible to say that but in this life some people have to make do with the cards their dealt with. Am not asking for your pity just the solution to my question because am lost on what to do on this scenario... like i said dont pity me because I have good friends, family that love me and finacially secure with qualifications so am not that bad, am just a very a unlucky man in some parts of my life which I can't control much over of.
I would appreciate your honesty and time
Most Helpful Girl
stop whining and lower your unrealistic standards im sure plenty of short average looking girls (which is how you described yourself) will be happy to date you. If you just want smoking hot absolutely flawless women you will be lonely and no one gives a shit.
Most Helpful Guy
Being 5 ft 6 has nothing to do with how successful you are with women. I have a friend who has LOADS of girlfriends and he is about that tall. But he's good looking and exudes confidence.
I'm not that tall myself (5 ft 8ish) and really have more women than I can deal with. Don't get hung up on the height.