So my crush overheard me talking to one of my friends about how I wanted to date this other chick but I clarified I wasn't a lesbian cause I go both ways sort of (not sure how much he heard probs not a lot and I don't thing he has a problem with it)
After that he started treating me more like a friend I guess. His name is sebastian so I told him this story about how when I was 5 my neighbors used have a dog named sebastian and how I hated the name so I called it ruffalando instead of sebastian. He just laughed at my story and I told him I would start calling him ruffalando instead of Sebastian cause he looks like one and he was like 'nooooo no I don't"
Me:u need a nickname
Me: that's a horrible nickname! what about bassy or sebby?
S:those are terrible!!
Me: what about sebastard?
S: are u calling me a bastard?
Me: not literally its just funny:3
Aaaaand I feel like he went from being slightly nervouse arund me to treating me more like just a friend" help me what to do !!!( he drove me home once and stares at me when I'm it looking but I feel like I ruined my chances with this nickname convo!!
he also asked if I resented letting him drive me home which I thought was weird but he was smiling when he said It)
Most Helpful Guy
This is a tough one, but i think u scared him off cos he thinks u dont like him. First u indicate that u wanted to date a girl and then say u dont like his name and call him a bastard. Lol. I think u should go and tell him that u like him and say u were joking and make sure he is ok with u being bisexual.1
Most Helpful Girl
Lol, reminds me of elementary school when boys and girls would tease the person they like. You didn't ruin your chances but you did mess up. You indicated you want to date another girl. You said you hate the name Sebastian. Then you give him the nickname of the neighbors dog you didn't like. Also I'm guessing he didn't get the reference to Black Butler you did with the Bassy and Sebby names. I don't blame him for feeling you have something against him. Especially with the Sebastard remark. it was through texting so words don't always translate in the tone it plays out in our head.0