So I'll be 21 really soon and I met this guy who's almost 20 and my mom is thinking unreasonably. We're only a year apart. We both have a deep love and talent for music and wish to pursue it together. He understands me better than any other guy I've ever dated. He senses my emotions out of the blue and he's correct when he does. He remembers all that I say and it's just amazing how he can bring up something I said weeks ago and I won't even remember. I feel as if he penetrates my heart. He's hilarious. And his talent inspires me. I've had writers block for years even during my past relationships but with him, I've been writing the best poems/songs I've EVER written. He's someone worth falling in love with but all mom focuses on is what he can buy me and if he knows what he wants to do in life. Advice?
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I'm sorry but it sounds like he's a really good match for you, your mother is your mother but i believe she is wrong in this case, it sounds to me like he's a guy worth chasing as you clearly like him, love isn't about what he can buy you or where he wants to go in life, at least not to me personally, as long as you make each other happy and trust each other and get on well etc, i think you should go for it, he sounds like me minus the musical talent, to be fair i'm having a similar issue, but over different reasons, and that's not a big age gap at all.
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