It's not through lack of trying, I am shy and reserved around women I like but I have had lots of crushes and have tried to ask girls out in the past but they either rejected me or the relationships just never went beyond friendship. The rejection has gotten that bad that I just decided to give up. That may sound rather defeatist and negative but it's hard to stay positive when nothing positive has ever happened romantically for me.
I'd like to know, what are your honest thoughts on me and guys like me? Do you see us as defective? Weird? Losers? Would you ever want to date/be involved with a relationship with a guy like me?
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I actually find this hard to believe. It's rare, no doubt in our generation, but I don't see it as anything bad in any way. I'd feel lucky to be a guys first anything especially if I had strong feelings towards him.
Don't beat yourself up over this! You just haven't found the right one. The way I see things is whatever doesn't happen the way you want it to means it was never meant for you to begin with. Honestly, everything happens for a reason. Expand your options and try being more social in new environments where you can meet new people or meet through mutual friends.
Hopefully I've given you a positive insight on the way to look at things. Good luck (: