Most Helpful Girl
I don't see this this often. I think it best if both have there own full life.
And as I have a full life, I want my guy be like that too and independent. Guys with a passion or a hobby are also just more attractive and fit better in my lifestyle. This way i don't have to worry him being bored when I am out with my friends.
Most Helpful Guy
Personally I do think the girl needs a hobby or two that she has some passion for. Like me being into fitness would find it to be a huge huge plus if the girl was a gym goer as well. Idle girls turn me off if they have no interests and tend to be blank slates which leads to a talkless meet where I just want to leave really badly.