Sorry I just need to vent for a bit on here. I'm feeling very frustrated I don't understand girls who think that their guy friends should put them befote their gfs. I requested that my bf not have this girl he has been friends with alone in his apartment he agreed that that's a perfectly acceptable request on my end. I never said that he couldn't be friends or hangout with this girl but that I as his gf isn't comfortable with another women alone with him I'm his apartment its just a respect thing and not to much to ask. There are seriously so many other things they can hangout and do. Well this girl bitches on FB saying someone shouldn't let their partner tell them who not to be friends with. Obvs this is directed at me and I'm like is she serious I never said that they can't hangout just not alone in his apartment which is a far cry from saying they can't be friends. She was all well we were friends first I'm thinking that has nothing to do with it there are certain things that out of respect for a relationship just aren't done once one party enters a relationship. She acts like she should come before his own gf. My best friend I think hit the nail on the head when she said the fact that she is so upset that she can't be alone with him in his apartment that she is making a FB status about it shows that she is crazy and probably likes him as more than a friend. My bf agrees that she is being ridiculous cmon a FB status twisting what I said is that really necessary?
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Honestly, my answer may be a bit biased because I've had a bit of a history with this type of shit, but I think the most important thing in a relationship is trust.
You need to trust your boyfriend and if he says you can trust his friend then you should take his word for it.
My story, I was dating this girl a couple years ago and she didn't like the fact that there were some girls in my group of friends. She pretty much told me the same thing like u told ur bf... she said she didn't care if I chilled with some of my female friends if there were some of my male friends around as well, but she didn't want me alone with any of my female friends. That really pissed me the fuck off.
I would always tell her that she needs to trust that nothing would happen but it was always an issue. Just because a guy is chilling with a girl, it doesn't mean that his intentions are to fuck her...
We ended up breaking up for other reasons but that shit always got me fuckin annoyed0
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