Would you prefer the girl to wear dressed up clothes or more of a realistic look? Do you want the girl to pay for her half of the meal or what ever you choose to do? And what do you just expect for the first date? Kissing? Light touching?
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I think dress casual is appropriate for a first date. You don't want to look too casual but expensive dresses and tuxedos are over kill. Then again it depends on what the first date involves. I never ask the girl to pay for half of the evenings expenses but some have offered or even insisted. As for getting intimate, I never go into a situation with any expectations, unless we've done a fair amount of conversing prior to our first meeting and have already expressed the desire to kiss or even have sex. I've gone on dates where the end resulted in a handshake and others where we found ourselves in a hotel room.1