So my boyfriend and I decided that if we are still together next year (which we both expect to be) he will move up to the city I am in for school and we will move in together. I'll be 21 and my boyfriend will be 20. We will have been dating for about a year. Do you think that is too soon to move in together or no? He currently lives an hour away and the distance is taking a toll on both of us.
Do you think a year is too soon to move in together?
What Guys Said 4
No idea how mature you are/what your relationship is really like. Hard to say.0
Nope, not too soon0
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What Girls Said 5
No, I dont think so. I had a friend that met her ex through a friend, they dated for around 2-3 months and moved in together. He ended up being extremely abusive, was sent to jail twice during their relationship due to battery and is probably still in jail for kidnapping her. So you are fine, I hope. by the way, this is a true story I wish I was lying haha. Just trust your gut.0
It's not too soon if you two are willing to work at it together. My boyfriend bought a house and had his ex (gf at the time) move in with him after less than a year of being together. The reason they moved in together was bc they saw each other all the time so why not just live together. After living with her for 2 months he realized what a mistake it was bc she wasn't what he thought she was. Things didn't end up working out and he asked her to move out. She did immediately, moving out of his house and moving into another man's house...
i think living together will show what a couple is eally like when living together and it can even bring a couple Closer (or further) apart.0
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Yeah in my opinion1
Yes too soon and you're too young. Give it some more time. Everyone i know who moved in together , regretted moving in after a few months.1
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