Most Helpful Girl
She's probably the kind that loves attention, but is fiercely independent, or scared to get too close because it's a breach of her personal space. She's caring, but sometimes she might not realise that it could be misleading. She might lead a person on, but she'll want her distance. She may seem manipulative, and she might even be - getting someone's attraction probably excites her, but once she realises that things can get kinda serious, she'll back out. She may be emotionally attached as a friend, but the moment it's about deeper relationships, she might be thinking more rationally - from her head and not her heart. That makes her the more dominant type, because until she herself decides it, she won't take the plunge, and nor will she allow herself to be so vulnerable. But eventually there may be a point where she'll pull away her wall. I'm not sure how relationships with such people work out. It's hard to keep up - it'll probably be something where she'll take off for a while or not be responsive all the time. Not sure though.
I can also think of girls who love to gain attention from those who don't give them attention. It's a game yea, it excites them. But that's it, once they gain attention, they don't wanna keep it up. They're intrigued by the silence, thinking you have something interesting goin on, but once you speak your mind, they may think ah, he's not my cuppa tea. But they may repeat the same behaviour with the same person again cos they're curious. Better to not have expectations of them or see them as potential interest. They may or may not be looking for that. They'll engage but keep a distance.
Maybe she's searching for 'the one'. Or maybe she has some experience she can't get over. Until you emotionally don't connect with her, you may never know. But that also depends.. do you want to emotionally connect with someone like her? She could be totally amazing, but as hard to deal with.
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Most Helpful Guy
Leave her ass alone! Stop thinking about her! Period!