I am extremely materialistic. I want my women to look a certain way, act a certain way, and have certain things. Whenever I am dating a woman or women, I always wonder if she can satisfy me. Most of the women I date end up saying I am an asshole for expecting them to have sex like pornstars and to be submissive in almost all cases, including when we argue. The thing is I don't feel like an asshole because I am everything that I am asking for. I have a great salary, I am very tall, standing at 6'1, with blue eyes and dark hair.
Since I have most of the qualifications that women ask for is it really that bad that I will always expect my women to be like pornstars with flawless bodies and almost perfect at having sex? Am I really an asshole?
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This is a genuine suggestion. If you want someone who thinks your money and looks are what is most important, and you also want this person to have sex like a porn star and always be submissive to you, then you don't want a real, down-to-earth relationship (not criticizing, just observing). Women are thinking and feeling human beings when it comes to relationships and who they are attracted to, so if you want someone who only has the qualities and desires you've described above, then I think you will need to find someone who treats relationships and sex like a profession. I. e. a woman who is willing to conform to the mold you're looking for in exchange for the money and not-too-ugly company that you're advertising. I would suggest three things, date a porn-star (seriously, I feel like that's the pool where you're most likely to find a girl with all those criteria), date (hire) a consort (I mean, that's certainly a means to an end, albeit more direct), or perhaps take a look at some of the dating websites that aim to match American men with foreign women who hold more traditional views of submissiveness and family-first, and honestly really really want a green card and a stable source of income. Now in my personal opinion you should see a therapist or guidance counselor, not because you're crazy but just to have someone professional who you can talk too about your very determined view of women. Just a thought.2