I was dating this guy for three months and well he would always talk about how he wanted to build a relationship and have a little family.. Then all of a sudden he wasn't himself he was rude and would hardly talk to me! And well I cut back then and he told Me I had the right to cut. Then all of a sudden this guy comes and makes me see the real beauty in me. He spoils me and says really cute things to me. He makes me feel like a princess. He fears in loosing me and cried when he seen my scars. He also cried when he dreamed that I cheated on him.. Which im clearly sure that I would never do such thing! Do you think its smart that I left my ex for him?
Most Helpful Guy
I think it was for the best that u left ur ex. But i'll be honest, this other guy seems like he needs to man up. I think u need a stronger guy who will support u better. I dont think its a good thing that he spoils u or that he easily cries. U obviously have doubts in the relationship already. Otherwise u wouldn't be asking the question. I think this is a classic case of Mr. Nice Guy syndrome. If u dont know what that is, I would suggest reading a little of this book called 'No More Mr. Nice Guy'. I think u will understand my answer better when u read a little of this book.0
Most Helpful Girl
I was with my ex for 5 years. He treated me like crap and to be honest I don't know why I even stayed. Leaving him was the best thing I ever did. I was so much happier without him, and after 6 months I found this amazing guy who opened my eyes on how a guy should treat a girl.
I think you made the absolute best decision, and if anyone looks at you like you are a hoe, screw them. They have no right to judge anything. You are not a hoe, you are a girl who finally found a guy who treats her right and how she should be treated.0