- It's absolutely final!
- I might be open to dating this person at another time in my life (maybe/depends)
- I'm still open to dating this person at another time in my life
Most Helpful Girl
It's final. If I'm not attracted to them, I'm not attracted to them, and there's nothing I can do about that. I wouldn't want them to change just for me either. It sucks because I feel like a real bitch, especially if it's someone I care about and they have feelings for me that I don't return. But I think it hurts them less in the long run to just tell them it's never going to happen; it's cruel to let someone believe they have a chance when they really don't because then they're just wasting their time and energy waiting and trying to be 'good enough'; when they're perfect as they are, just perfect for someone else
Most Helpful Guy
In my experience, you can't go back. I let her go and move on... no more chances.