Me and my friend are best friends. I love her, but I always feel insecure. I am very nice, and she's really nice too. However, she always gets the guys. The guys that I want, never want me. She can get guys to buy her drinks, but I can hardly ever get guys to buy me drinks, or it's through her that we get drinks for free etc.
Guys never really talk to me, I go up and talk to them, but nothing ever progresses, like no number exchanging, or meeting up somewhere etc. With her though, guys seem to progress with her. I was told many times that I am a very sweet girl with a bubbly personality. This isn't based off of my personal opinion. People have told me how nice I am, attractive, and what not, but yet my friend seems to have all the guys, and the guys seem to like her. It really puts me in a bad situation with myself because I don't know what I do wrong? I talk to guys normally, and I am very friendly. Maybe it is because she's prettier than me, but why is that?
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I've seen this a lot with girls - they go out in a pair, one gets all the attention and the other tags along home to bask in some reflected glory. Quite often the popular one gets a guy and refuses to do anything with him 'unless you have someone for my friend, too'.
You should consider going out without her if you don't already, without her there attracting all the attention you stand a better chance getting some focused on you instead.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE