I've been on match. com for months now and I've read tons of profiles and messaged the ones I was interested in. Sometimes I try to send at lest 5 to 10 emails a week, but I don't get any replies. I don't know what's going on and it's getting quite frustrating. I've rewritten my profile, changed my pics around, and even had some of my friends give me advice about what to do or say. I'm on the end and I need new sources of honest opinion and help. Help me please! Don't hold back. Go to match and username search CoCoCavelle85
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I think you need to send more emails than that. If I were you--and I know this may seem crazy--I would spend a good hour or two sending out messages to girls you're interested in.
I think the major issue is that many women aren't looking at your profile FIRST. They're looking at if the person is attractive and THEN their profile.
I'm not calling unattractive, I'm simply saying that this is how I proceed and I'm sure so do many other women. Also.. lol... there are a lot of people who sign up for services and don't use them. I have a Zoosk/OkCupid account I haven't been on in years... lol.2