So me and my boyfriend have been dating for nearly a month, this is my first relationship, EVER. I started hugging him a week after we started dating and since then we hug everyday. But I've been wanting to hold hands with him, even though I'm the shy/quiet type of girl, but I was the one who made a move, because it doesn't seem like he is. So I tried making the move today, first time he thought I wanted a hug so we hugged on the way up to class. Then my second try I tried to hold his hand, he scratched his head and put his hand in his pocket. I tried one last time, his hand was out, I went in but then he ran away to catch up with his friends, I was left to walk upstairs from a distance disappointed. So what should I do, should I wait for him to make the move or something, this is my first relationship, good answers please 😊 thank u for reading 😄
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it's like I'm reading a shoujo manga. ahahaa. nice.
he's obviously embarassed and shy about it. but now that you've tried it, he knows it's on your mind. he may not want to hold hands in public because it would attract attention and he'd be uncomfortable with it till he got adjusted to it.
be patient for a week and see if he makes a move. if he doesn't, then maybe not hold his hand, but you can tug at his arm or hug his arm. :) see his reaction then. :D1
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