I recently started trying the whole online dating and so far things have not gone very well. The pattern I am seeing is that the guys want to meet wayy to fast for me. For example, there was a guy who I was talking to online for maybe a day or so and just yesterday he asked me to come over to his house at night and watch a tv program. He got offended when I didn't come over and was like all you had to do was say no.
Can someone give me some advice and tell me what I could possibly be doing wrong. As I said before a lot of the men are pushing for way more than what I want at the moment. One man was telling me how he is looking for a girl he can come home too, and I was thinking like dude I have not even met you yet. Any tips to help me in my dilemma, lol
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I'm thinking of joining online dating too and I hope I don't come off as a creepy guy X)
It seems a lot of men are impatient for a companion and push hard for something from the internet even if it's uncomfortable with you. The internet is just a less filtered place of what we think in our real lives. In real life guys will feel the same but they may be too intimidated to do pursue you. So they try online instead. I think you need to make clear to yourself what you want and go for that. If you don't want to meet so soon say that on your profile and make it clear. Maybe that will help.0