- I would date a girl like that
- I would not date a girl like that
Most Helpful Guy
I am pretty old-fashioned and I love being a gentleman to a lady. And, to be honest, I have always been very well received by woman that way. After a few dates, however, I think it's pretty normal to trade off who pays, etc. and be a bit more lax about it. But, still, I will always open the door, carry the item, make certain that she is on the inside of the sidewalk, always allow to finish speaking (I do this anyway) etc. I take it as my responsibility to make her feel safe, taken care of, and loved. And , in doing so, always get back the respect, and so much more from her than I ever would have otherwise in the form of non-monetary rewards (and I am not referring just to sex). So, I prefer a woman who feels comfortable with gender roles, but not overly rigid, and certainly relaxing as the relationship grows. I would never push your hand away, or laugh at your for getting the door for me either! That's just ridiculous and shows little confidence in your date. Does all that make sense?
Most Helpful Girl
Why wouldn't some of them? A lot of them can mooch just like women if they're attractive enough.
Whether or not you agree, you're still playing a role. It may be one that was once dictated as a man's role in the traditional sense, but you are still playing a role. It's simply a new one---gender roles that aren't limited by gender.