Most Helpful Girl
I am wary of people who think that since I am a nice good person, i should get special treatment especially from the opposite sex. Being a good person is a choice you make for yourself, for your own selfesteem and because you want to feel worthy of respect and affection when the right woman who also wants respect and affection crosses your path. Hard work, intelligence, strength and perserverance can take you farther in life than just plain fucking lazy and entitled niceness.
If you are considering acting as an asshole to get laid or get a girlfriend then you should seriously question your own niceness and question if its fear based compliant and false niceness or if your niceness comes from your own strength of character and good heart.
Most Helpful Guy
This is my opinion on the whole nice guy ordeal:
I hate how people believe that they have to be an asshole to get women the thing the asshole has is balls to go up to a girl they think is attractive and thats it if you believe that not being nice is key you're not really a nice person we were raised "hopefully everyone" to be nice/kind to everyone not just for chicks