Let me just say that i am nice , iam a nice person who is capable of getting angry and acting like an ass but for the most part i am nice , however i dont think its why i only had 1 girlfriend so far , i keepp reading online that you have to be an ass and act a certain way to get girls... but at the same way i see quite a lot of nice guys with pretty and amazing girls so maybe its the situation you're put in , what clubs you choose ot join , what school you go to , what kind of competition you have , of course being a weakling and nice as hell is not going to do you any good , also if a girl wants to sleep with you/kiss you and you go a couple dates with her and never do it do you really think she will just lose interest? if she really wants you then she will want to spend more time with and do more things with you , i dont think its about being nice or an ass , iam still figuring it out myself but maybe its about confidence , you dont have to control her and make the first move all you have to do is being confident in what you're doing thats how it works ( at least theortically ) if you're sitting in your car with a girl late at night talking and you want to kiss her is being an ass going to work? i dont think so , as i said iam not the most experienced and need to figure out things so I don't know feel free to share your opinions.
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I am wary of people who think that since I am a nice good person, i should get special treatment especially from the opposite sex. Being a good person is a choice you make for yourself, for your own selfesteem and because you want to feel worthy of respect and affection when the right woman who also wants respect and affection crosses your path. Hard work, intelligence, strength and perserverance can take you farther in life than just plain fucking lazy and entitled niceness.
If you are considering acting as an asshole to get laid or get a girlfriend then you should seriously question your own niceness and question if its fear based compliant and false niceness or if your niceness comes from your own strength of character and good heart.0