I'm not really sure what we're doing. Like I said, when we're together it's perfect. I don't know what happened with him and his ex, but I do know he moved state to get away after the break up. With me, my ex was just very controlling. I don't know if I should just ask this guy what we're doing? I don't want to seem needy.
Most Helpful Guy
Sounds like maybe he isn't aure either is probably waiting for a sign that you want to take things to the next level. if thats what you want. he is being very cautious because of the past so you will have to let him know what is ok.
Most Helpful Girl
Clearly you both need to sit down and talk things out... Seems to me that he really likes you and maybe wants to be in a relationship... However i don't think he's ashamed of you, he just wants to believe that he doesn't want a relationship and i guess when he's with his guy/girl friends he tries to live up with it... For instance my boyfriend and i haven't even discuss about having a family or kids and we're together for 2 months...
Just talk to the guy in a calm tone... If he's really into you, he will understand :)