And please, whatever you do, don't say that "an insecure guy won't stand up for his beliefs and run away from his lady when shit hits the fan". If his beliefs are right and he doesn't stand up for them, he's a fucking idiot, not an insecure guy. MANY insecure individuals know how to protect their loved ones when shit hits the fan, whether you believe it or not.
If I see comments which fit the description above, prepare to be ignored.
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If it doesn't affect the harmony of the relationship and he is willing to work on it without shutting me out, I don't see a problem. If he starts using me a crutch, that's when it is a problem. A partner can only support you, not rescue you. Only you can work through your problems ultimately.