I have the biggest crush on my housemate. We've become great friends and spend a lot of time together. He cooks for me too. So, I was upset that he has a girlfriend. Luckily for me she is being a completely nutty nightmare at the moment and I can tell he'll soon be done with her as he's always complaining. Basically, she's toast which suits me fine as I would never try to steal another girls guy.
He and I get on great, really really great, and I'm quite good looking so you would think it was a done deal but we went to a party the other night and he came home with numbers and he actually told me he thought one of the girls wasn't bad, which I don't think he would do if he had a mind to date me or was thinking of me in that way. That said, I nearly dropped my towel by accident this morning and I notice he got focussed real quick 😋
My friend says he got jealous when I was talking to another guy (he actually got her attention to say "look at her talking to him, what's a guy to think?" And she feels he somehow wanted her to intervene) but I feel like I need to get him to REALLY notice me.
Any and all sneaky tips welcome! This is THE guy for me and I'm sure I'm the gal for him but I need help making sure I'm the only girl he's thinking about once he's free. Since im his housemate and therefore always available I need a plan to make him see that I'm hot goods and won't be available forever, so come on guys and gals, if your advice works, I'll buy you a hat for the wedding!
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When he was showing you all those numbers, he was trying to do exactly what you are. He was trying to show you that he's desirable to women and that he's hot goods and won't be available forever. He wants you to make a move! Thats why he was getting jealous of you talking to that guy. He likes you:)
You should ask him out, as a friend. Start flirting, build up some chemistry and wait for an opportunity to make a move on him.1