I've been sleeping with this guy for a year... we have amazing physical and sexual chemistry it's actually crazy. Things have been going really well for the past little bit, and now suddenly he's been flopping on me this week and not replying to my texts. He told me to initiate and call him first, and now that I did he's flopped - now I feel discouraged to even text/call him first. At this point, I'm ready to stop this casual fling/ friends with benefits because something needs to be said for once and it can't last forever. I know 110% he's going to contact me again, as he always does. When I see him he's nice and fun to me and we always talk a lot so I'm kind of upset right now. But I guess I'll be giving him the silent treatment for a bit so he'll notice somethings wrong, then I'll bring it up. Is there even a chance he'll change his mind about losing me and make me his girlfriend, or is all hope lost?
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"But I guess I'll be giving him the silent treatment for a bit so he'll notice somethings wrong,"- that is extremely immature
"Is there even a chance he'll change his mind about losing me and make me his girlfriend,"- the idea that you can change a man is rooted in abusive controlling behavior0
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