Been there, done that twice. You are doomed! All is lost!
For bipolar or borderline?
Borderline. Their prognosis is extremely poor, even with treatment.
How long were you with the woman? Did she go through the stages of seducer, clinger and hater? I'm dating someone now who I think is in the clinger phase.
Seventeen years. No seducer phase, some clinging, much hating. Complicated with a diagnosis of M. S. and prescription drug dependence. I tried hard for 15 years, she drained our bank accounts and disappeared, then re-appeared penniless, had brief episodes of hallucinations and paranoid ideation. Awful, awful times.
Sorry to hear :(
Got divorced when I was 49 years old. "Best years of my life" could have been much better! Don't let the same thing happen to you. You may want to help her but you can't pull her up; she will pull you down!
Have an opinion?
Best avoided. Too much drama and abuse.
What's your story?
I'd prefer not to share, if you don't mind. Just that it ended up abusive, and from people I've spoken to, that doesn't seem to be uncommon.
Okay, I hope you're fine now :)
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