Most Helpful Girl
this is stupid... honestly... look, you can't judge a book by it cover, can you, its the same with human, you can't judge a person by their appearance... there's outer beauty and inner beauty. the second one is most important. people who are 40 out of 12 can be so mean thats why some people in this world never gets married and dies lonely. some people who are 0 out of 12 are not ugly, its just a dislike of an appearance, some of the worlds most disliked appearances are the worlds most nicest people ever. there's this story about a man who trusted his father so much that while he was at war, he asked his father to choose him a wife. thats how much he trusted him. when he got home, he took his wife in to bedroom n lifted her veil, he was all like "she's not beautiful. she's not beautiful!" he went to bed, his wife woke him up to help her with something really important. during 4 weeks of their marriage, she showed him so much love and heart that he forgot about her appearance and started looking within and he said " i just realized, outer beauty doesn't matter, it whats on the inside. i never knew you were this beautiful."
this is how much inner beauty matters. u need to learn this somehow. men re so stupid when it comes to this lesson. theyre all like, lmao, lol, we dont nee this and all but i learnt this the hard way... I've got a crush and he's probably a 4/10 but when i go to class, my teachers start talking about him and all the good things he does and how sweet he is. they all really like him and whats your problem if you can't have all of this, you need to gain this amount of admirable values so that you can use it when you need it. this isn't a letter lecture but a lesson u need to learn, not just girls, boys too... some people are shallow, disliked, beautiful, in the middle... they just dont have any interest in whats on the inside. i know so many people who are shallow and people who are not. n i fell for one... who isn't shallow like some people.
Most Helpful Guy
Its not so much that people reject based on attraction, its that not everyone bases 'attraction' on the physical. When those same people attempt to measure a persons worth or value, in their respective lives at least, solely on how they look this is referred to as being one dimensional OR 'shallow'.
Additionally, when those people who base attraction solely on looks assess the worth of others or place their own personal labels on others i. e; labeling them a 3 with the notion that they themselves are a 7, 8, 9...
To your mom or dad, you're always a 10++
To the next person, you maybe a 2...
I am a heterosexual man who is not attracted to what the 'majority' of my peers traditionally find attractive. For example, I don't like large breasts or blonde hair. Does this mean that women with large breasts or blonde hair are ugly? No. It only means that I personally do not find them to be attractive.
-Don't assume your 'opinion' is a fact because its not. That IS a fact...
-Dont be so quick to judge or label, it just makes those who do, look ignorant.
-Keep in mind, the physical ALWAYS fades and then what remains is what's on the inside.