Most Helpful Girl
For me if you're good lucking that might intimidate me so I go with personality next. I don't like guys that know they're attractive and flaunt it to the extreme.
Most Helpful Guy
Looks are pretty important and I say this as a mediocre looking guy who got his confidence torn down on here by girls. But very few people in the world actually look that bad and most people have a decent appearance enough to get them somewhere I believe.