I've met him 4 times and spendt the whole weekend with him, we had sexual intercourse, and he told me he wasn't looking for a relationship and i shouldn't fall in love with him, why he said this he never explained.
I am 23 and i go to college and i work and i have a lot to do so im very busy in my day to day life. He only works, 24 and no education.
He lives in a flat with 4 other guys and they all smoke weed and he also said at times they have "drug" parties, I've never smoked or done drugs and never been in this type of enviroment.
I know he isn't good for me and that we are very different especially when it comes to life style and my friends would never approve, so i should probably just leave it and never speak to him and distance myself. I
I dont really care about the fact that he doesn't want anything serious, because like i mentioned i dont have time for a boyfriend, BUT im afraid that i will develope feelings and fall into this hole of dating someone who is kind of a mess, he is very good at his work and has goals but the drug and smoke part i dont like at all..
i mean "cross the street when you see crazy" ? should i stay or leave?
I know best thing for me and my "heart" is to leave and wait for something great.
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"I want to continue this because I feel shameful for sleeping with a guy and not dating him for a long period." The solution to your problem is not to keep hanging with a guy that you know is not good for you. The solution is to decide that there's no shame in what you did. Because there isn't. You had sex with a guy. Then you decided he wasn't worth any more of your time. There's no shame in that.
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