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I know I've made myself elusive before to attempt to attract the other person more and to not be clingy and unattractive, but went overboard into the point of rejection. He probably thinks your the type of girl into the hard to get guy and he's trying to play that role. It sounds like he really likes you. Dating can be so confusing cause when someone dosent talk to you, basically the same thing can mean two totally different thIngs. Either it's legitimately rejection , losing interest, or realizing he can't date you due to life's obligations OR its a game, the most famous one and the one I hate most cause I think it just confuses people and creates drama... playing "hard to get".
Its a good thing he dosent want sex right away, that means he's not a douchebag. a lot of girls are into asshole guys who's only interest is getting them into bed then leaving them out on the side of the road to bleed. These same girls want relationships with these guys and it almost never happens and are always hurt and usually think bad of guys as a whole. Us guys have this "quirk" in our way of thinking. Thing is if a girl hooks up with us right away, we stop taking her seriously and it's only sex. If she dosent, she's a possiblet girlfriend. Dosent make sense but it's the truth. Perhaps a girl to us who holds off, we see as one who respects herself more and also being more trustworthy. Back to this guy your talking to. He's also probably trying to prove he's not just interested in sex by holding off.
I know the early stages of dating are confusing. You just have to be patient. Cause people who aren't patient end up with the wrong people that treat them poorly.