Most Helpful Guy
Let go of the childlike notion, that finding love is finding someone to be responsible for your happiness. You must take responsibility for your own happiness.
You can choose to be happy with or without your boyfriend. Stop comparing yourself to your friends, just cause they are all married and playing happy families, doesn't mean they are any happier than you.
Have I missed out on anything, being single? Of course I have. Like anything, it's a tradeoff. No one has ever made a devoted commitment to me or considered me their special soulmate. I have no idea what it feels like to see someone and long to know every bit of their body, deeply and passionately. Sometimes I get sick of always going to things like weddings and funerals by myself.
Oh, and I'm probably going to die alone. There is that.
But you know what? The fact is we're all going to die alone. You don't get to take anyone else with you on that final journey. In the meantime, I figure we might as well each live the life that makes us happiest.
Most Helpful Girl
Aw your time will come. Maybe you are unlucky so far in love. I didn't date till 19 An that's late an it's fine cus what ever time is right for you is cool. Don't look at others. People I know on first or second child? Engaged or married. Yes I want that too but it's not my time yet an that's also the case for you I have a boyfriend an he wants kids an we will in good time there's no rush to compete with others. Timing is everything , your love of your life is out there just be patient an not sad. Or you will attract the wrong kind. Keep smiling lady. U. K. Girl xx