Most Helpful Guy
I don't know. My generation wasn't like yours. It seems like everything has gone south since the advent of the internet, cel phones, and especially rap/hip hop (sorry, but this is just true). The whole misogynistic player attitude of hitting it then quitting it has gone totally mainstream. Schools, churches, parents or fathers have failed to instill any real character values as well. Now nearly everyone is obsessed with texting, sexting, facebook, and living in these bs online events or venues. It doesn't seem to have impacted women quite as much, but there are many who it has, so it's not to throw just the males under the bus collectively. Don't ever lose heart my fellow romantic, there are good and great guys out there, but they are fewer and harder to find, just like the women can be. Persevere, find yours, and don't sell yourself out before. You deserve to be treasured and loved fully and deeply.
Most Helpful Girl
It's rare to find a guy who wants something serious nowadays. Casual sex is easy, no strings attached, no commitment at all. Just make sure not to lower your standards and to always carry yourself highly, the right guy will come along sooner or later