I broke up with a man I love bc I feel like I want someone who has their life together more. Now im really sad and I miss him. Did I make a mistake?
When we aren't arguing, i was really happy. When i broke it off, he was very shocked and said he that he loved me and would change anything i needed him to bc he wanted to stay together and believed we could work it out. Says we have something special and can see himself marrying me one day. But these are only words. Im the breadwinner between us and its getting to me. Also he's 3 years younger and it shows in his stubborness and hesitation to commit. he's shown some improvements but at times he'll slip back to his usual attitude. Help!
I am not referring to a specific person who has their shit together, i meant in general if i was to be in a relationship with someone, id want them to already be in a relatively good place since im at the age id want to settle down if things got serious.
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explain that you broke it off cuz he's a loser and needs to get his shit together and that if he does you'll get back with him.
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