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Try to find questions you can ask, that show your interest in the other person. Maybe you can gauge their interest from those questions? Try to be less specific on looks you want a woman to have, if possible, and focus more on her personality and good qualities. No, don't kill yourself. Your ex doesn't define how worthy you are as a human being. Show kindness and love, make the first move if you're interested instead of waiting for it :-) I've always been shy, even if I'm interested in a guy sometimes shyness takes over and I need him to make the first move.