I don't know how other people do it. I have never wanted to put the work in a relationship. I live alone and I'm used to being on my own. I don't ask women out because I don't want to at all. I have had women find me attractive but I turned them down. People say relationships are rewarding, but I don't think they are. I think they're a waste of time. I might come off as selfish, but I only care for myself. Nobody else will. Ever felt this way?
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I feel you. I know exactly where you are coming from. I think it boils down to this. I've thought about this for a very long time.
Do you want to come home every night and have the house be silent? Just you and your thoughts. Everyday. Day in and day out.
I've been there. I still am there. You reach a point where loneliness will drive you insane. It's essentially jail.
Sure, you'll have to put up with some crap. Do certain things that make you uncomfortable. But so what? If it means I'm not alone and I have someone next to me who wants to be with me, then I am more then happy to do anything for them.
I assume you play a lot of video games to occupy your time. Which isn't a bad thing. But do you really want that to be your life?1
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