I ask this, because I have a female friend who is extremely attractive. Even my frineds call her my hot tall blonde friend. However, I have never seen someone struggle so much with getting a decent boyfriend before in my life. Often guys just want to have a fling, or don't want to actually date her. And then a lot of other guys don't take her serious because they assume she is not smart, nice, funny etc. She is a masters student like me, and very smart. We also get along very well, she is not snotty in the least and can make me laugh enough. Even more, there are the guys like me that she actually really likes, but don't have the confidence to date her.
The sick thing is though, I know I have done this to women myself. If I see a very good looking girl, I assume that is who and what she is, it is almost like she is so pretty, THAT has to be her best trait (it is messed up and I have been working on this admittedly).
So what do you think? Man or woman, are you so attractive that these things happen to you? Do you know anyone, or have exmples like this? Or maybe I am just making this all up? Maybe the benefits of being so attractive outweigh these negatives? Leave a comment!
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I know having a girlfriend that is extremely attractive is constant work - There are always guys right there vying for her attention and trying to get near her, and I am constantly having to manage it - and, naturally, she is altogether naive and oblivious to what is even happening around her.
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