Is this a good way of doing this?

I want to ask a friend of mine to go swimming with me and my friend. The 3 of us are taking an acquatics class right now, but I'd like to get to know him better. However, I don't want there to be any awkwardness between us if he says no. He seems like a quiet guy. So far, he's only been interacting with the guys in our acquatics class and me. He is much more talkative with the guys, but has been warming up to me for the past few weeks. He's been friendlier with me.

I was thinking about asking like this:
me: "hey (guy), (friend) and I are going swimming tomorrow. Do you wanna come?"
If he says no, i'll be like "okay. no worries. see you next week"

Since he's in acquatics with me, he wouldn't find the request weird right? I don't want him to think this is a date.

Would he find it awkward or weird in any way? I am mostly concerned with it being awkward the rest of the class.


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  • I don't think he'll find it weird.


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