I like a guy a lot. WE dated before but we ended it because we thought we should be friends for awhile. I lately have like him a lot more, so i asked him out. He said no. MY best guy friend that has a crush on me for a while has flirted with me a lot lately. I dont think he is cute but he is very sweet but i never thought of him as more than a friend. i wanted to get my mind off things. I asked him out and he said yes. I still like the first guy but I'm dating someone. I also think i could convince the first guy to date me. The only problem is that my best friend just got out of a relationship and they broke up because she was afraid she might be gay. I dont want to hurt him. WHAT DO I DO?