Most Helpful Girl
Start talking about something simple for a while, then if she's receptive, ask for her number.
Most Helpful Guy
I reckon if you run at her but turn away at the last second you will not hit her, but you may startle her. If you did hit her it would probably upset her, which is why you turn away and hit a bar stool or her less interesting friend. Try to use enough speed to get to her so no other men beat you, but not tok much so you can stop yourself semi safely