Literally i'm almost 26 now and i've never even kissed a girl before! At least i've been on about 4 dates by now so that's good. I just don't get it I send message after message on dating sites, and I used to approach girls in real life, but girls aren't ever interested. They always say they have a boyfriend. Even after talking for 10 minutes. Now for some reason I look at a girl and I just say all kinds of things to myself, like oh she's probably thinks i'm ugly or it will just be a waste of time. I've literally sent out like 1000 messages on pof and have only been on like 3 dates. I used to approach girls all the time, but I just don't have it in me anymore. Girls around my age seem to be too immature and play too many games, or just aren't serious. It's annoying when I get cancelled on when i'm fixing to leave the house to go pick her up. How can I get back to having a better attitude with women?
Most Helpful Girl
Forget online dating, you don't know who people are until you meet them it's a waste of time spending weeks or months chatting with people online when they can act as anyone they like and lie as much as they want, i tried it myslf and each time it was just a waste of my time because i was just constantly lied to online from guys who just wanted sex... the internet ruins people perceptions of others too because online you see them differently than you do in person and as soon as you meet them, see what they really look like up close and hear their voice in person you see them differently again, but who you saw online wasn't really them they just act so different online, more confident. Nothing can relace being around someone in-person, so id stick to dating in person.0
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Most Helpful Guy
me being a guy, it pisses me off on how wanting, seeking validation has to come across as weakness first.0