I met a guy over a year ago, and we became best friends. He only has distant family in the city where we both now live, and he's told me repidedly that I'm closer to him than anyone, that I'm basically his only "family" here.
Unfortunately, I fell for him, and we started dating. He just broke things off, saying he feels he's not ready to be with one girl. He cried the entire time, yet I can't help but feel like I've been played. When I asked him before if he wants to be only with me he said yes, but now suddenly he changed his mind and wants to go back to being "just friends". I don't think I can be just friends with someone who told me he loves me and I genuinelly love back.
Could his tears have been fake? To get me to soften up for him
Do guys fake cry?
- NoVote A
- YesVote B
- Real Men Don't CryVote C
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Sorry I said 'yes' to your main question, that yeah a guy cries when it's serious. No guys don't use tear as their weapons like girl, there are lot of times when we are shattered but we drink our tears instead of shedding them. It's feels sour in throat. And yeah, you won't even recognize, very often some guys with smiling and laughing and act like having fun, does not matters how much shattered they feel. Or the girl he likes and wants to be with is smooching another guy (who is an asshole) in front of him.0