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Well with my wife it was just an unexplainable feeling. Love is undefinable, she asked me and I've asked her why we love one another and we can't find a reason. All my past Ex's, I would always find an answer and it seemed as if that was the downfall of my past relationships. It's like finding the profession you love doing, when you feel at home and it feels natural, then it's the right choice.
I'm a natural comedian, and I feel as if I just want to make people laugh and smile. Most of my jokes are sick, twisted and m rated but my wife has got no problem with it.
You shouldn't change who you are the way your s/o wants you, but it's the natural encouragement to change yourself for the better.