How do I ask a girl out or to hook up?

I'm pretty shy the girls I've dated and had sex with it's because they have suggested it not me. I don't really know how to take the initiative I feel like I'm being annoying if I ask a female I'm interested in to go on a date. I don't get nervous I just don't like being annyoying or a creep. I really dont know what to say or do. there's this girl I wanna hook up with but I really dont know how to ask her or if I should.


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What Girls Said 1

  • the trick is to get her to notice you. strike a conversation with her first, make incremental steps.. like test the waters first before diving in... see how she responds, do her eyes light up when she sees you


What Guys Said 1

  • dude... sounds like u overcomed yer depression basically... correct

    anyway... when u approach a girl, ask her 4 friends as the 1st step :-)