I had met this girl for coffee a week before. I thought we had hit it off. So we both decided dinner was a safe bet.
We meet up and she doesn't even give me a hug.
Then in our chat she looked exhasted and bored. We both had worked in the day. I kinda felt like we barley said much or talked. I ran out of stuff to say, and I felt it got awkward. Then I decided fuck it.. this is already going downhill. So I pulled out my phone and searched some questions and we went over them.
At 1 point I asked if she was tired or bored. She said both...
What also killed it for me was she never even offered to pay for dinner or her share. Not only that, she didn't even say thank you for dinner... I mean really?
Anytime someone gets me something I thank them, because I apprciate that they are doing something for me that they don't have too.
Maybe I am venting to get it all out. I really liked her during our 1st meet. But, now... I think I have no clue.
PS: at the end.. she just stood there and smiled outside... and said she was sorry, she was just tired. Pfff...
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Why didn't u pull her up on it. She was clearly putting up a bitch shield and u didn't knock it down. But there was also faults on ur side as well. She had a bad day obviously and was wanting a nice dinner. The first test u failed was when she didn't give u a hug. U shoulve pulled her up on it and hugged her anyway. She also felt the convo went terrible so she thought 'well i might as well get it for free and make him pay for it'. Also she didn't say thank u which is kinda rude, but thats how she felt. She didn't feel she needed to say ty when u had given a terrible date.
Women want a man that can lead and also put them in there place if they misbehave. U let her stomp all over u and u didn't make the experience good for her. Im not surprised she acted te way she did. Take this positive criticism and make sure u make the next date u go on more exciting to make her feel good and want to put an effort into the interaction. Also pull her up on things. Do this playfully and not angrily. If u make her laugh about it then it will be okay. Hope this helps a little.