I feel my crush became somehow too comfortable. He used to contact me several times a date, but after we had two dates he checks on me only in the evening, but he doesn´t initiates dates frequently. I want him to chase me, to plan dates upfront, to show me that he really wants me.
I showed him my interested already, so he must be comfortable and should not be afraid of rejection. I know he likes me physically (he told me) and he also says often he enjoys time with me.
But how can I make him to work for getting me harder?
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Your urge is to contact him more often in this situation, but as hard as it is, you need to do the opposite. Back off, and give him a little room. And cause him to miss you again. This is SO important, and works almost every time. It will kill you inside in the meantime. You will want to call him or go see him so badly. But don't allow him to see this. He needs to miss you!0
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