I've been seeing this guy for a month now. Lately things have been a bit weird - we had an argument and things have been weird since. He's been out of state this week and I've not really heard from him. I text him a few days ago to see if he wanted to hangout when he got back. All he said was "not sure". I asked him what he wasn't sure about and he hasn't replied - that's like 2 days ago. He's been blowing hot and cold like this. He's told me multiple times that his ex really "scarred" him, but I feel like I don't deserve to be messed around or led on because of that. Is it worth being really upfront and telling him that I want more than what he's offering and that if he decides he does too then he can get in touch, otherwise I'm done? Would that help or be detrimental? I really like this guy (I honestly don't know why) but I don't want him to think I'm going to stand for him treating me like crap and constantly assuming I'm dating other guys behind his back. Should I say something? I know I could just leave it all, but I don't think I can.
Most Helpful Guy
You need to CALL him. Tell him that you need to have a serious talk face to face when he comes back. You can't leave it all because you don't have a definitive answer on what he wants. This is why you guys need to sit down in a relaxing atmosphere and talk about it.0
Most Helpful Girl
Yes, you need to be honest with him. Tell him that you like him, but you don't want to be screwed over.0