So I have been talking to this guy off of tinder and have met up with him twice. The first time was last week for coffee. We met at a starbucks and had a great time. I felt like we really clicked and we have a ton in common. We were even “lol”-ing at each others witty jokes which is pretty rare for me on a first date. At the end of the night he said do you want to hang again soon and I said yes. He texts me three days later and says lets explore this cool area of town together Saturday. We meet at a coffee shop and its kinda slow at first but the conversation picks up and we’re having a great time. We walk around a bit and grab lunch after. At lunch I was starting to feel kinda tired so I said I had to leave after we split the check and he did not even try for a hug, kiss, or even say we should hang again. He said he had a great time and I said me too. I’m wondering what the hell is up? We’ve hung out for multiple hours twice and not even a hug? We shook hands the first time we met but that is it. Something to note is I am not a flirty person at all. I’m pretty much a guy in the emotions department and I’m more of a serious empowered female than most. But he is also really independent and not like most guys so I like him a lot. I feel like maybe he doesn’t think I like him or something because he hasn’t even told me I look nice or any compliments like most guys do. Any advice? Obviously I have to wait and see if he texts me again in the coming days but I just feel sad and like I bored him to death or something.
No kiss after two dates? What is going on?
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Well although u might not want to take advice from a 14 yr. old consider these factors
A:he is too shy to make the 1st move
B:insecure... I had a boyfriend who didn't want to kiss me because he said he was a bad kisser
C: this pertains to A, if he's too shy then maybe u might have to make the 1st move
D:only thinks of you as a cool friend to hang out with
or E: likes you but doesn't find you attractive, if thts the case then u don't need him0
"We’ve hung out for multiple hours twice and not even a hug?" - you sound clingy
You seem VERY CLINGY0
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