After 5 months, my friend invited me and this guy i'm seeing on a double date and we went but it was obvious that he didn't feel confortable. Well he told me that we were never exclusive and that he has the right to talk and hook up with other girls (but he hasn't). Having said that he gets jealous when I talk to other guys, he tells people that he and I are more than what we are.
Also he called me clingy because I invite with to events that include my parents (because I live with my parents) like football matches and stuff. What annoys me is that I told him from day 1 that I'm not the type of girl that does the casual hook up stuff and that I want be with someone that I can make plans without being scared that they'll leave in a week or two and from what he's saying is that we are only friends who sleep with each other.
I honestly feel stupid and betrayed because it took him 5 months to tell me how he feels and its as if I'm not good enough. We had a massive fight yesterday about it and now I'm wondering, should I wait for him to make contact or should I just assume that he doesn't wanna be with me anymore.
P. S I was gonna start going on the pill but should I now put that idea on hold? Or should I start using it even though I don't know what going to happen? (I don't sleep around)
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I dated a guy like this. The fact that he feels like he ahas the right to hook up with other girls is a major red flag. The next thing that will happen is he will hookup with other girls. If he wants to hook up with other girls, but gets jealous when you talk to other guys, it shows that he's manipulative. Another red flag. Just don't wait for him at all. End things before you get hurt even more. I've been there, and done that. A girl like you deserves someone better than him.0