So I have given up on looking for a girl because of the bad experiences that I've had with them like getting rejected all the time. I just want to know how I should forget about having a significant other without not letting it make me sad.
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My strategy was to start something incredibly challenging and time consuming, something that would irk my mind constantly until I succeed, and it has to be enjoyable at the same time. Video games used to fit that mold (to no degree of real world success) but I've tapped into the Internet Marketing business. Other people study Real Estate, others open a brokerage account and build a stock portfolio.
These are fields that require boundless knowledge and adaptive strategies to changing circumstances in order to succeed. That keeps you busy and commands your focus. That's what has kept me from worrying about or caring about finding a girl.
My drive is to reach unprecedented success, and be the man who changed the fortunes of my family. Maybe at the end I'll find some high quality women to settle down with, not the low-grade crap that has given me grief my entire life.
This is how you come to terms with sucking at something. Find something to be good at, something you're passionate about, and dominate it. You can't control whether or not a girl finds you attractive or loves your personality/status. You CAN control your career success.1