and now I have not heard from her since, it's been two days already and no reply... I guess it's over she's just not interested in me.
Most Helpful Girl
Wow yeah sounds like it went pretty well/ 3-4 hours is long for a first date and she probably had opportunities to cut it short. Def follow up soon, like tomorrow if you haven't and maybe suggest something in the middle of next week for date 2. Good luck!
Most Helpful Guy
It sounds like it went well. My guess is that when you asked her for that second date she didn't know her plans. If you want to go out with her again, ask her a second time. Then get her entire schedual of her free days so that if one day doesn't work another one will. If she keeps avoiding all your attempts then maybe just being friends is good